Integrated Masculine
A community of men walking the Integrated Path
Courses, multiple weekly brotherhood calls, and tools to help you grow and evolve physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and financially.
For the man who refuses to choose between strength and softness, between earning power and emotional power, between being dangerous and being trustworthy. With other men who will become both your support and your standard.
$99/mo · 50% off for life
(until we're at 50 paid members)
Month-to-month. Cancel anytime.
The "Either-Or" Men Are Offered:
Endless Processing
ALL INNER WORK, NO OUTER WORK
Money & Muscles = Toxic & Performative
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You've sat in the circle. Said the hard thing out loud. Got held in it. Left feeling cracked open.
Then you went home and did nothing differently. Six months later you were processing the same wound. Everyone was getting more emotionally articulate.
Nobody is building anything.
And part of you knew it, even if you didn't say it out loud.
The thought you had to push down: this isn't men's work.
This is somatic/traumatic processing... important...
But this is not MEN'S WORK.
Capability gets called "Toxic."
Pursuit of money gets called "Patriarchal."
Strong muscles gets called "Performative".
The actual masculine projects: building yourself into a man who can protect, provide, and lead.. are the things nobody was REALLY doing in these spaces.
You left more articulate.
You did not leave more capable or confident.
And you certainly did not leave feeling
more embodied as a MASCULINE
ALL INNER WORK, NO OUTER WORK
Money & Muscles = Toxic & Performative
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You've sat in the circle. Said the hard thing out loud. Got held in it. Left feeling cracked open.
Then you went home and did nothing differently. Six months later you were processing the same wound. Everyone was getting more emotionally articulate.
Nobody is building anything.
And part of you knew it, even if you didn't say it out loud.
The thought you had to push down: this isn't men's work.
This is somatic/traumatic processing... important...
But this is not MEN'S WORK.
Capability gets called "Toxic."
Pursuit of money gets called "Patriarchal."
Strong muscles gets called "Performative".
The actual masculine projects: building yourself into a man who can protect, provide, and lead.. are the things nobody was REALLY doing in these spaces.
You left more articulate.
You did not leave more capable or confident.
And you certainly did not leave feeling
more embodied as a MASCULINE
Red Pill Rage
ALL OUTER WORK, NO INNER WORK.
Emotions & Connection = Gay & Retarded
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Lift heavy. Make money.
Stop apologizing. Stop feeling so much.
It worked, in a way. You got harder. You got richer.
You also got quieter and meaner.
You started agreeing with threads about how women are the problem.
You stopped letting anyone get close. What was being called Alpha was a front for the jadedness and pain these men were avoiding at all costs.
That is not power. That is avoidance, and BOYS avoid their emotions and being soft and loving.
And you know it, even though you didn't say it out loud. A man who can't feel anything can't actually love anyone.
Especially himself.
Empathy gets called weakness.
Tenderness got called feminine.
The actual masculine project: being strong enough to stay open, AND dangerous enough to be safe.
Definitely something nobody was doing.
You left harder.
And empty.
ALL OUTER WORK, NO INNER WORK.
Emotions & Connection = Gay & Retarded
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Lift heavy. Make money.
Stop apologizing. Stop feeling so much.
It worked, in a way. You got harder. You got richer.
You also got quieter and meaner.
You started agreeing with threads about how women are the problem.
You stopped letting anyone get close. What was being called Alpha was a front for the jadedness and pain these men were avoiding at all costs.
That is not power. That is avoidance, and BOYS avoid their emotions and being soft and loving.
And you know it, even though you didn't say it out loud. A man who can't feel anything can't actually love anyone.
Especially himself.
Empathy gets called weakness.
Tenderness got called feminine.
The actual masculine project: being strong enough to stay open, AND dangerous enough to be safe.
Definitely something nobody was doing.
You left harder.
And empty.
SPOILER ALERT, MEN:
IT'S NEITHER.
AND IT'S BOTH.
THAT'S INTEGRATED MASCULINE.
Hosted by Matthew Finlin
A decade at the intersection most coaches won't go near: Sales & Spirituality, Fitness and Finances Neuroscience and Mysticism. He didn't pick a lane because the lanes are the problem.
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He's also spent that decade inside every flavor of men's work that exists. The redpill guys wanted him angry. The soft men wanted him endlessly processing. The business bros wanted him rich. The spiritual bypassers wanted him passive and "always content". None of them wanted allof him. So he built the brotherhood he couldn't find — and then he started letting other men in.
Matthew built Integrated Masculine because he believes the world is starving for whole men.
Men who can hold their families, their work, and their God without splitting themselves into pieces to do it.
The order is real to him: serve God first, then the woman, the children, the planet, the brotherhood, the community… in that order, every day.
The top reasons for starting Integrated Masculine were because he continuously had "spiritual men" approaching him (behind closed doors) and saying things like:
- "I want to look like a Greek God"
- "My woman wants to be in her feminine but I can't provide."
- "I feel like a bitch/am getting bullied by other men."
He also spent 4 years coaching women how to do business and noticed that the 2 reasons women were "struggling" to really launch were:
- They weren't syncing with their cycles
- The foolish men in their life, adding burdens instead of alleviating them
Eventually enough was enough. He got the call, and answered it.
Hosted by Dr. Manesh Girn
Neuroscientist, biotech founder, and men's work facilitator bridging cutting-edge brain science with psycho-spiritual transformation.
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He holds a PhD in neuroscience from McGill and completed his postdoctoral fellowship at UCSF under Robin Carhart-Harris, studying the neural mechanisms of psychedelic experiences.
He's Co-Founder and CEO of Five Discovery, a biotech company developing next-generation neurotherapeutics for neurodegenerative disease, and Scientific Director of The Center for MINDS. Cited nearly 3000 times, his research has appeared in top academic journals including Nature Medicine, PNAS, and Brain.
Dr. Girn has over a decade of experience in men's work (both as a member and as a leader). From 2018 to 2022, he started and led the first Arka Brotherhood (then Samurai Brotherhood) squad in Montreal. Since then, he's become a 200-hour trained Tantra teacher in the Kashmir Shaivism tradition, spent over a year in Jungian analysis doing deep shadow work, and is currently in leadership training with Sacred Sons.
Bringing together his diverse background, Dr. Girn bridges science and spirituality to help men attain inner harmony and mastery, and brings tools like EEG hardware that gives Integrated Masculine an edge that isn't found elsewhere.
What's Inside the Brotherhood
Conversations, curriculum, and brotherhood you won't find anywhere else.
Weekly Brotherhood Calls
Many calls, and increasing in volume monthly. As of July there are 5+ calls a week... The schedule keeps growing because the men keep showing up.
- 🙇🏻♂️ Report The News Showing up in full honesty for your brothers. Do you want to be: Heard, Held, Challenged or Coached? Backbone of the brotherhood.
- 🌙 Women's Cycles Debatably the hottest topic at the moment. Men need to know. Women want them to know. This single-handedly is saving relationships and making men feel more empowered and show up as a safe container.
- 🧠 Neuro-Optimization Hosted by PhD of Neuroscience; Manesh. He covers relevant neurochemicals, hormones and networks/circuitry. Connecting the Spiritual reality of our mind to the Biological reality we exist inside.
- 💰 Money Talks w/ Brad Or as we like to call it "unf**k the basics". Brad has gone from door-to-door salesman to an international franchise owner and owns and manages multiple real estate properties. He knows the ins and outs of money, and let's be real. You don't. Get money, and then GROW IT.
- 📈 Dharma Sprints Pretty straight forward. 2 hours of co-working, focussed work. Show up, lock in, undistracted, get shit done.
Replays available, but the brotherhood happens LIVE.
The I.M. Classroom
Relationships. Mental Models. Masculine Development. Biochemistry and Neuroscience.
Most men spend their lives reacting to forces they can't name.
Our own neurochemistry.
The hormonal architecture of the women they love.
The unconscious Masculine and Feminine forces inside us all.
The patterns running their marriage, their motivation, their money.
The I.M. Classroom provides a simple map and compass to all of these: ancient and modern, spiritual and biological... and the man who integrates these stops being run by his own life and starts running it.
The curriculum will evolve as the brotherhood does.
The I.M. Second Brain
Potentially the most useful system in the platform, especially compounded over time
The I.M. Second Brain
Potentially the most useful system in the platform, especially compounded over time
Most men carry their burdens in their heads (the avoidance, the loops, the half-named priorities, the to-do list, the shame, even their connection to God).
The I.M. Second Brain is where all of it gets out of the head and into a digitized system that organizes the man around what actually matters. This journal process is designed for deep self-relationship and masculine development.
The coolest part? We can run an AI synthesis of the patterns running through your entries across weeks or months, and engage in meaningful dialog and reflections that helps orient us towards our goals.
Logos
Logos is our personal LLM Trained on our entire I.M. curriculum AND is integrated with your personal Second Brain.... meaning the backbone of Logos is all of our masculine, spiritual, and neuro-biological functions. Logos acts as a potent coach, sparring partner, and personal assistant in one chatbot. It is WAY FKN BETTER than Claude, Chat, or whatever for "Advice" on these topics.
Fully encrypted. Your data stays yours.
This is for the man who:
- Has seen through both rooms and knows neither one is the answer.
- Has done enough inner work to know inner work alone doesn't make him a man. Has done enough outer work to know muscles and money alone don't either.
- Wants to be the man his future wife deserves, or the man his current wife has been waiting for. Wants to be the man his children can trust. Wants to be a brother other men would go to war alongside.
- Knows that power without softness produces a hollow man, and that softness without power produces a man who can't protect anything, including the softness.
- Is ready to be witnessed by men who won't let him slip, won't let him hide, and won't let him settle for a version of masculinity that asks him to amputate half of himself.
This is not the space for:
- Men who frame/blame anything but themselves for their circumstances... including culture, govt, or women.
- Men looking for a breathwork circle where nobody will challenge them.
- Men who want to perform masculinity without doing the work underneath.
- Men who mistake tears for transformation, or processing for building.
- Men who can't take honest feedback, and men who can't give it with care.
- Men who confuse being loud with being strong, or being soft with being good.
- Men who do not believe that men and women have significant, and beautiful differences.
Enter the Brotherhood
- multiple hours of calls everyday
- The full I.M. Classroom - 100s of lessons on masculinity, women, neuroscience, hormones, spirituality, fiancnes, relating and more
- The I.M. Second Brain: daily practice, systemizing your life & AI synthesis
- Logos: your dialled af AI LLM Brother & Coach
- Monthly accountability partner rotation
- A network of integrated men to network, collaborate, and market to with integrity
$99/month or $1,000/year — both locked for life
soon the price will be.... $197/month or $1,970/year
You've read the page. You know what this is. Decide.
The BrotherhoodPays You Back
Pay-it-Forward Math
The fastest way for the brotherhood to grow is for the men inside it to bring the men they want to build with. So the math is built into the system.
Earn 50% of every membership you refer, every month, for as long as he stays.
Two brothers covers your seat. Five and you're being paid to keep being here.
Get paid to build the brotherhood you'd want to be in.